Tuesday, September 2, 2008

Reflections

This last weekend my family was up in Cedar City for my sister-in-laws' Dad's and brother's memorial service. They were killed in a plane crash just over a week ago. What a horrible tragedy. The funeral and thoughts of what had happened have been incredibly sad, but there has also been great spiritual growth. It was a reminder that none of us know what the next day holds or how long we will be here and how important it is we live our life obediently so we will be ready for the next. Marie's dad and brother were both amazing people and living as they should and as I listened to stories at the funeral and remembered ones Marie had shared in the past realized what an example they were to me and everyone around them. Her dad served so many people in more ways than I'd ever know, but just in the ones I do, he was a great example of someone who was busy, but still found time to do more for others. So many of the stories I had heard about Dallin always somehow involved what a straight arrow he was and what an example that is to me that we must always do what we know is right, even if it is different from those around us or isn't easy. It also helped to remind me how important it is that I put in the time each and every day to make sure I am doing all that I should. It's too easy to get caught up in every day life and let some of the more important things slide. How important it is to be consistent and dedicated to doing all we need to. Hearing Marie tell some of the things they've experienced just reinforced more that Heavenly Father is aware of all of us and knows what we are doing and blesses us with so many tender mercies if we will just look for and notice them. He loves us and never leaves us alone. What a blessing that is. I'm so grateful for the knowledge of the Plan and what great strength that brings in situations like this. What a blessing the gospel brings to my life and I am so grateful for it.

3 comments:

Cedar said...

I had no idea about Maries family. My heart totally aches for her. What a sad loss, I am glad you were able to be there. Hope everything else is going good.

Anonymous said...

Lindsay, Oh my gosh! My cousin's husband is a Farnsworth! Marie's mom is his sister! You know Wendi, my cousin who went to Tia Rosa's with us? It's her sister who is married to Joe Farnsworth - he would be Marie's uncle, and he's my age! Lynann is much older than he is. He went up for the funeral, but his wife stayed here with their 4 kids. Oh my gosh, that means his wife, Jennie, who is not only my cousin, but one of my very best friends is Marie's aunt. This is all so weird! I was so sad when I heard about Joe's brother-in-law and nephew and I had no idea of the connection back to you! There are even more connections, but we'll have to talk about those later. I'm just so sorry for the Ellsworths and all of the families of the victims. How sad to have that tragedy when they were in that plane because they wanted to do service for people.

Lara Neves said...

I just randomly clicked over to your blog from Kim Skinner's...I knew her when I lived in AZ. I live in Cedar City now, and I am so sorry that this tragedy affected your family.

There was an obvious pall over the city for days after the accident. And you're so right, I really thought about how you just never know.